Having been in the Lifestyle industry for 20 years we have a unique perspective on what makes a network successful. Here are a few things to think about before you decide to join any network...
These are the Majors. Sites that boast millions of members, tens of thousands of people online. These sites spend millions in advertising mostly to get new couples to join. Nearly all of our members started with a profile on a major site.
Do you care about a couple in New Zealand that finds you attractive when you live in Maine? Do you really want dozens of emails every week from single males, even though your profile states your not interested? How about constant messages from males half your wifes age because they think that 'works'. Do you need to receive dozens of messages for Viagra, etc every week? Did you know that couple from New Zealand is probably fake anyway and that you are responding to a chatbot?
Every major allows you to join for FREE! Then you immediately start getting messages from (probably fake) accounts set up as chatbots, telling you they are interested, but wait, to answer them you have to me a paying member. Other FREE users are there to play games with you as well. They will write you several times and then ghost you after convincing you to let them see your photos. Free users on any site are not worth the time it takes to respond, so why be on a site that has millions of them and creates more everyday.
Most of these sites will allow anyone with a 'club' to post events in order to increase traffic. But these sites do nothing to check the validity of these listings. That 'club' in many of these listings turns out to be the basement of some couples ranch house, or the mobile home of a single guy. The majors don't care and don't see any difference between the guy with the mobile home and a legit place of business. To them its all about traffic for the endless streams of ads they run on their screens.
We are not a big site. We do not pay a company to create free fake profiles on our site. Our members are real and they are online because they choose to be. Our growth is organic, coming from the overall growth of our position as the premier Lifestyle organization in New England
All of our online couples are from the five New England states. We do not accept online members from anywhere else. We literally turn away potential customers because we feel it makes our network more valuable to you in the long run.
We do not run ads for anything, period. We do not send emails that are not related to our organization. We do not advertise other events or products, simply because we will not promote something that we do not know or do not believe in.
Because we do not allow single males at our brick and mortar club they are not allowed online either. We have had requests to reverse this policy and we are certainly sympathetic to those single men that have an honest interest in meeting a Lifestyle friendly single lady, but overall their bad behavior outweighs the good.
Ever been on a major and you are 100 emails into 'getting to know you' and neither side wants to commit? Why is that? Its because meeting one couple on a date is a major commitment of time, money and energy. This doesn't happen much at New England Swingers. Why? Because after a few 'get to know yous' you can simply decide to meet each other in the privacy of your multi-million dollar club, outside the public, in a great atmosphere. If things work out, great! If they don't? Well all you have to do is turn around and say Hi to the couple behind you....
By now you know that FREE isn't free and that FREE is mostly annoying. FREE is so the majors can run ads. We don't do free, we don't run ads. But more importantly making all our members pay a reasonable amount makes them a invested part of the community and in keeping the network alive. Cost per couple is currently $89 a year. We also do not believe in recurring billing, so you make the choice each year to remain a member.
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